You are trying to package your own unwillingness to do research as an attempt at reaching across…
You are trying to package your own unwillingness to do research as an attempt at reaching across the aisle in order to make yourself feel unconcerned. Get out of here. Go do research or talk to a queer person you know. I am a queer person and I’m under attack, and I’m *telling* you this information exists and is easily findable. Admit to yourself that you actually don’t care enough to listen or search to try to learn anything.