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Simon's avatar

Loved this article! I’m very spotty with this and I’m often surprised by what kind of disobedience (of my own) bothers me and what doesn’t. It feels like the higher stakes ones like at work bother me less than ones with much smaller stakes in familial relationships for example. Maybe it comes down to what authority I’ve been taught to respect the most as a child, and not what authority is most dangerous to me as an adult.

Anyway, for anyone who felt momentary retroactive panic for maybe breaking a rule your whole life without realizing it (I like to break rules on purpose knowing the risks, not on accident), from the line “Fail to report a birthday check from your grandma on your taxes”, gift money you receive is not taxable income in the US. Giving a monetary gift is taxable when it’s large enough (the amount changes), but the gift receiver is not accountable to the IRS.

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Emerald Monkey's avatar

This is such an important subject! Being able to say no and be noncompliant without worry or hesitation can save you from SA, or being a victim in any situation. It’s a skill worth sharpening. Practice lying. Not being able to do these things puts us at a huge disadvantage. Break a law! Break a rule! Steal from a corporation if you know you won’t get caught or the penalty is low & worth the risk. Practice breaking out of your comfort zone. Be weird in front of people you will never see again. Practice, practice, practice, my people!

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