Autistic Advice

The parents who hide their kids’ Autism diagnoses.

And the price of label avoidance.

Apr 2 • Devon

Video version: A theory of messaging styles and ghosting.

Happy New Year!

Jan 14 • Devon

Video version: How to tell someone you think they might be Autistic (or trans)!

Nov 15, 2025 • Devon

The Ethics (& Tactics) of Telling Someone You Think They're Autistic

(Also relevant if you want to successfully crack a closeted trans person's egg).

Nov 3, 2025 • Devon

How (Some) Autistics Get by Without Empathy

Feeling "evil" isn't easy.

Oct 1, 2025 • Devon

Video Version: Dating & Hooking Up in a Changing Transmasc Body

Jul 3, 2025 • Devon

How to date & hook up in a changing transmasc body.

You don't need to wait, you don't have to pass -- your life begins now.

Jun 23, 2025 • Devon

Video: Balancing Being Openly Kinky with Family Boundaries

Happy Friday ya’ll!

Jun 20, 2025 • Devon

My nephew is skeeved out by my kinky life. How do I stay true to myself without ruining the relationship?

Setting boundaries without shame.

Jun 16, 2025 • Devon

Video Version: Maybe you'll never be happy, but you can be interested!

Here’s the video version of this week’s piece!

Jun 12, 2025 • Devon

Maybe You’ll Never be Happy. But You Can Be Interested.

Finding meaning in an ordinarily unhappy life.

Jun 9, 2025 • Devon

Video Version: I just came out as trans. Why am I suddenly so angry?

Here’s the video version of my latest piece!

May 14, 2025 • Devon

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