Sex Liberation

It isn’t uniquely sacred or harmful. It’s just a part of life.

Mar 3 •

The Quietly Coercive Nature of "Vanilla" Sex

Sex is a buffet of endless, diverse options - and none of them are required.

Feb 3 •

The Trans & Autistic Guide to Cruising

Exploring desire in bars, backrooms, parks, saunas, and beyond.

Sep 16, 2024 •

I'm bi, but I've only ever been with my partner. Should I cheat?

A round-up of advice all about monogamy, kink, and the difficult work of treading one's own sexual path.

Aug 23, 2024 •

There is no safe sex. There is no safe life.

Fucking, transitioning, and resisting the state all require admitting risk into your life.

Aug 15, 2024 •

I'm trans, but I have a genital preference. What should I do?

Navigating sexual limits without being transphobic -- or needlessly pressuring yourself.

Jul 23, 2024 •

The Asexual Fetishist

I’m attracted to concepts, not bodies or people.

Feb 1, 2024 •

Is “Porn Addiction” Real? Is Masturbation an Autistic Stim?

Autistic Advice #7

Oct 24, 2023 •

Stop Treating Gay Men Like Hypersexual Perverts

It’s blatant homophobia, even when another queer person does it.

May 30, 2019 •

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